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Dear Guidance Guy,

I just learned the philosophy at my daughter's elementary school is no homework. She is in senior kindergarten right now and when I compare what she does with her other cousins - they are getting homework. Also as part of their program they have 40 minutes of outdoor play each day and her class is only 2.5 hours long! Wanted your opinion and thoughts on what I can do.

Thanks,
Reni

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Dear Reni,

There are several different schools of thought on giving homework to young kids. Some people prefer to have pre-schoolers and kindergarteners develop structure and routine through simple at home assignments. Some like them to run free and discover things for themselves as much as possible. And most classes with young kids fall somewhere in the middle.

It seems as if your daughter's school is closer to the second category. If your preference is to have a more structured experience for your daughter you can certainly create it yourself. Try asking her teacher about activities that could supplement what's happening in school. If you don't get any good suggestions from the school you should be able to find great activity books in the children's section of any bookstore.

A few minutes a day of something fun and challenging - perhaps something you can work on together - seems like a great way to supplement her learning.

Thanks For Your Letter,
The Guidance Guy

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