Wednesday, March 21, 2007
He Won't Talk To Me Anymore
Dear Guidance Guy,
There's a boy I've been friends with since 5th grade. We went out a few weeks ago, but broke up because of certain reasons. I realized I still like him. I think he still likes me, but I'm not sure. He doesn't talk to me anymore. What should I do?
Missing Him
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Dear Missing,
Hard to say without knowing more information. That "certain reasons" thing holds the key to everything.
Maybe it's best to put him (and you) in a situation where the pressure's off. If there's a way to tell him you're OK with being friends for now, that would be good. This way he won't have to feel like he's under pressure to go back out with you again. Sooner or later both of you might be interested in starting something up.
If he still decides not to talk with you, remember that there are many guys who will. Once you feel good about yourself the right ones will come along.
Best of Luck,
The Guidance Guy
There's a boy I've been friends with since 5th grade. We went out a few weeks ago, but broke up because of certain reasons. I realized I still like him. I think he still likes me, but I'm not sure. He doesn't talk to me anymore. What should I do?
Missing Him
*** *** ***
Dear Missing,
Hard to say without knowing more information. That "certain reasons" thing holds the key to everything.
Maybe it's best to put him (and you) in a situation where the pressure's off. If there's a way to tell him you're OK with being friends for now, that would be good. This way he won't have to feel like he's under pressure to go back out with you again. Sooner or later both of you might be interested in starting something up.
If he still decides not to talk with you, remember that there are many guys who will. Once you feel good about yourself the right ones will come along.
Best of Luck,
The Guidance Guy
# posted by Larry Hochman : 1:42 PM
