Wednesday, November 08, 2006
After The Attraction Is Gone
Dear Guidance Guy,
What should I do? I'm going out with a girl but I don't feel about her the same way she feels about me.
Confused
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Dear Confused,
It's OK to tell her you'd don't want to go out with her anymore. Sooner or later she'll figure it out, but it would be better if you put a stop to it before you start resenting her. The old "let's just be friends" speech might work. But I'd go with the truth. You don't feel the same way she does and it would be better for both of you to move on. It's tough to do, but you'll both feel better in the end.
Good Luck,
The Guidance Guy
What should I do? I'm going out with a girl but I don't feel about her the same way she feels about me.
Confused
*** *** ***
Dear Confused,
It's OK to tell her you'd don't want to go out with her anymore. Sooner or later she'll figure it out, but it would be better if you put a stop to it before you start resenting her. The old "let's just be friends" speech might work. But I'd go with the truth. You don't feel the same way she does and it would be better for both of you to move on. It's tough to do, but you'll both feel better in the end.
Good Luck,
The Guidance Guy
# posted by Larry Hochman : 2:11 PM
